the one with the relationship

read a friend's blog. thought it was interesting in a way.

do take a step back now and then to reflect on yourself, see what have become of you, whether you have changed for the certain someone, it's great if he/she has made you change/is making you change for the better (eg. you started doing voluntary at ALL the old folks' home in singapore)... but think about it, has he/she made you change for the worse? (eg. he abuses stray animals and you follow suit, you started to knock down cats n dogs when you see them) ---- hahahaa ok these are extreme examples so as to get my point across----one should really try not to lose oneself when involved in a relationship because it will take awhile for you to find your own identity back when you come to realise that you no longer know what you like/prefer without having to start your sentence with "my boyfriend says i look ugly in pink so i stopped....... " "my girlfriend thinks that i should cut down on sports because she says that......."does your boyfriend/girlfriend defines you?it's healthy to compromise and learn to enjoy each other's hobbies/ preference, but.... do know when to let your true self stay within you