the one with the opinions

why do i care so much about other people's opinions? they are not always right. I am just unsure of myself at times and easily swayed by them. I guess i am more of a friends-orientated kind of person. I think this is why i didn't get onto a goodstart the previous time and make her life so miserable. really feel that i have ruined 4years of her life

is it that hard to voice out one's opinion? this seems contradicting to what i mentioned earlier. however, it really gets on my nerves whenever my mum keeps repeating and nagging about family's stuff. why doesn't she just confront them and tell them directly that they are the worst bunch of people in the world and to stop being such pushovers? i know it's hard because money's always a sensitive issue.